Be Realistic: Plan for a Miracle

That is the greatest calamity that can happen to a relationship – when two persons settle for adjustment. And if you are long enough in a dif?cult relationship, what can you do? You have to adjust. Then you settle for something that is not worthwhile. You drop all the romance of life and all poetry. Your life will lose all signi?cance and grandeur. It will become very ordinary, very mundane... in fact, profane. It will lose the dimension of the sacred.